And the cervix of a 19 year old…

I’ve always looked young for my age. I’d be the only one left out of the bar, as my friends filed in giggling and giddy on rum and coke Slurpees, with their fake ID and shoveled on make-up. The bouncers would laugh at me and tell me to go home to my mommy.

I was still being carded at the beer store when I was 30.

My gynecologist told me, just a few years ago, that she would never of guessed that I had 3 children because I have the cervix of a 19 year old. It was a strange compliment and not the kind you can call all your friends to brag about really but I skipped home joyfully just the same.

Yesterday, I was feeling particularly effected by the endless side effects of the Prednisone or possibly the Actonel that I am taking to help protect me from the side effects of the Prednisone…or the pills I’m taking to ward off the side effects of the Actonel… whatever.

I was feeling terrible and looking remarkably pregnant for a non-pregnant person so I went off to the grocery store in search of leafy greens, dried fruit and fiber. When I reached the cash, the owner started his usual chit chat which would normally bore me to tears but I’ve been starved of human contact lately so I entertained it. We were in mid mundane weather talk when he wondered rather abruptly,

“Are you married?”
“Married? Are you married? I never see you with a man, only your children.”

I haven’t been out of the house in a while, is he concerned or flirting?

“Oh, no…I’m not married. I have a boyfriend. I’m not married.”

“Do you live together?”

“No…no we don’t”

He smiles broadly and starts in about what I do for fun, how often do I see my boyfriend, do I like being a single mother and what am I planning to cook with the dried prunes etc…

Then he talks about how he would like kids and starts listing off the qualities he is looking for in a woman.

He is flirting! How fun! I think I can remember how to do this.

I smile back, toss my hair over my shoulder and make a few witty remarks, laughing contagiously and annoying the person waiting in line behind me to no end. Then the cashier comes right out with:

“I like older women.”

“Excuse me?”

He grins and gives me this you-know-what-I’m-talking-about-that’s-right-YOU look with a raise of the eyebrow and everything!

“I like older women, real women. I don’t like young girls. Older women have life experience, it’s very attractive.”

I refrained from letting my face fall immediately after the words left his lips. I refrained from clubbing him over the head with my bag of avocados. I refrained from screaming “I have the cervix of a 19 year old!!” in the grocery store.

I just took my box of bran and my produce, wished him a great day and good luck finding is dream woman and made my way gracefully out of the store and back home to take my 10 pills and a tablet of osteoporosis medication before getting cozy on the couch with a glace of prune juice and this month’s issue of O magazine, just in time for Dr. Oz.

Older women…pft!

Jennifer June


  • At 2010.01.29 08:30, Daffy said:

    I laughed…I’m sorry…. I know I’m next in line for old lady comments. It will happen any day now I’m sure of it. Especially now that I’ve not only laughed at you but at my Hubs too. While in a quick stop gas station he went inside to buy a RedBull. There were some very young girls (16 at the oldest) standing around the counter waiting on their one last friend to return to the counter to pay. One girl tells the other “Just let that old man go, Sara isn’t ready to pay yet.” and of course that ‘OLD MAN’ they were speaking of was Hubs. He’s 36….he’s not old….
    .-= Daffy´s last blog ..Fortuitous Friday =-.

    • At 2010.01.29 08:45, Jennifer June (admin) said:

      I thought I’d at least make it to 40 before I got the “older women” line!!

      • At 2010.01.29 09:30, Lee the hot Flash Queen said:

        That is such a great story. Did you remember to pick up your depends and denture cleaner at the store too??
        .-= Lee the hot Flash Queen´s last blog ..This Is An English Speaking Blog =-.

        • At 2010.01.29 09:50, Jasmine said:

          NICE! I hope I have a young looking cervix…haha!
          .-= Jasmine´s last blog ..Ernie =-.

          • At 2010.01.29 12:49, theladyslounge said:

            [New Post] and the cervix of a 19 year old… – via @twitoaster

            • At 2010.01.30 12:49, Jennifer June (admin) said:

              maybe a bunion sander…some Metamucil and a couple of Ensure shakes to chase it down with….

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